(Love)It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs.
We all are responsible to God for our own actions. He is requiring us to “not” keep a record of wrongs of others( no judging others). It is easier to look at others and make a big parade of what they are doing or have done, that seems to be out of line, rather than looking at ourselves. “There is no one who does good, not even one”. (Romans 3:12) We all have faults. We fall into the sin of pride, when we begin to judge the actions of others, considering ourselves better than they. Consider taking your next thought of what someone has done that you perceive as wrong, and privately give it to God by praying for them. Have you ever dropped a stone in calm water and watch the ripples continue? That is what happens when we do not exercise self control when handling the wrongs of others, the ripple of sin just continues to flow